not only am I moving across the country in a few weeks but my dad wants to throw away all my stuff from growing up and I want to throw up

Why do so many bad things have to happen all at once?
I’m starting to think

that I need to give up some/all of the activities I take part in at school, so I can have more time to focus on graduating. I know some people will be mad at me, but I’m going to have more and more trouble putting my all into these things, and I don’t feel it’s fair to do something and not put your all into it. Too many difficult decisions, and I don’t know what to do. Blah.